I LOVE roller coasters. Always have loved them and always will. I’ve never been afraid to ride anything. The thrill of riding a roller coaster for the first time is indescribable. Not knowing where the next turn or drop will take you and not knowing what is coming next is exhilarating to me. An amusement park is one of my favorite places to go – Carowinds, Kings Dominion, the rides at Disney. You name them, I love them. My favorite is probably the Rock-n-Roller Coaster in Hollywood Studios at Disney. It’s all in the dark and goes 0-60 in 2.8 seconds and that literally takes your breath away. Not to mention you get to listen to Aerosmith the whole time which makes it even better! The adrenaline alone is totally worth it!!
This journey is extremely similar to a roller coaster. Some days you feel on top of the world, and then without warning you are jerked to the bottom of the bottom. The twists and turns that you go through on a regular basis are honestly exhausting. Justin and I made the decision after our last round of injections, that we were going back to clomid because of money. Injections are expensive — $1000 out-of-pocket each month. Clomid is much more affordable — so we are kind of “taking some time off”. Taking a step back in my mind is “Taking some time off”. I thought that by taking time off it wouldn’t be as emotional, or hard, or frustrating. Well I’ve learned a valuable lesson — it’s always emotional, it’s always hard and the frustrations never end. Today I went to the Dr to be told that for “some reason” my eggs didn’t get to the size they need to be in order to do an IUI. Surprisingly I wasn’t upset — I took it extremely well! There were NO tears! YAAAY!! However it’s still frustrating.
I also experienced a high point of the roller coaster ride this weekend. I spent time Saturday with some of the greatest friends in the entire world. Justin and I have been blessed in Roanoke to have what I think are hands down the best group of friends ANYONE could ever ask for. Their support and love is never-ending. Most of them have children. Which some people would think would make it extremely hard to be around them. Honestly for me it’s the exact opposite. The pure joy and excitement that the kids get when we come around makes me feel so good. Saturday night, out of the blue, my nephew Carson came up to me and said, “Hey Laura — I love you more than Ice Cream!”. Now he was being silly — but that meant the world to me. More tha ICE CREAM?? I don’t know about you, but that’s a big deal. Playing Saturday with Carson and the other kids truly made it a special day.
No we haven’t had children yet, and obviously we aren’t pregnant. It could be an even longer road ahead to get our own children. However I have several children at my disposal who I love and adore — and to hear, “I love you more than Ice Cream” makes my day. The hug and love of a child, even though they aren’t mine, remind me that one day I WILL be a Mom, and I will get to experience this love on an entirely new level. That feeling alone renews my hope and strength to keep going and to not give up!
My Mom passed on a verse to me that is now written on my bathroom mirror. “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit” Romans 15:13. It’s all about hope! And in this roller coaster that we are on, it’s important to focus on the top of the top and get out of the bottom as quickly as possible!
Sometimes you just need a little reminder that there are people who love you more than ice cream 🙂